When
we hear about lack of libido in a relationship, usually we assume it is a
problem of females. The truth is men account for about over 30% of total low
libido cases. As a lady, you still can do something to defeat his decrease sex drives. Men (same as women) adore oral sex. If you want a means to get him wild
in bed, here are the suggestions on oral sex you can commence.
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Get him cleaned up
Whether
receiving or giving oral sex, both have to be comfortable. This will not be possible
if either one of you has a bad smell. It will be great if your man cleans
himself first. It will be excellent if you both can have a bath together.
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Keep yourself in a comfort zone
If
you are not in a relaxed lovemaking position, you will not be able to give him
a nice blowjob. If he is standing or sitting, giving you a lot of space for
movement, you can kneel on a pillow or sit on a seat
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Feel the neighboring areas
You
can give him a cat bath (kissing him all over) and use your hands to
"molest" his medial thighs, perineum, and testicles (the area between
the anus and genitals) which are all erogenous zones to get him into the mood
slowly. To increase the excitement, you can use your fingertips to tickle
behind the testes.
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Start licking him
You
start by warming the tip of his genitals with your breath. There are a few
sensitive areas of the male genitals for you to take note. The tip of the
genitals is highly sensitive than the shaft, especially the ring around the
head. The underside is sensitive than the side especially in the area proximal
to the tip (known as the frenulum). To be effective, you have to focus your
licking effort on these erogenous points.
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Take his genitals into your mouth
After
playing with the head, you slide your mouth down the shaft while placing your
fingers at the base of his genitals (to create a ring). This will prevent you
from getting choked if you unexpectedly take in too much of his "ice-cream
stick." You should take in one-third to half of the shaft of his
"ice-cream stick". With your teeth behind your lips, you compress
your lips against his shaft as you slide up and down along his semi-erected
manhood. Do this gently at times, relishing the sexual pleasure of your action, and
then picking up the pace.
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Alternating between tongue and mouth actions
Once
in a while, you can switch back to using your tongue to lick on his frenulum
and tip. You can experiment with the diverse types of licks on these two areas
apparently by changing the shape or movement of your tongue. To give him more
extreme pleasure, you can also twist your neck right and left so that it feels
like your mouth is spinning on his penis.
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Applying your hands
If
you want to arouse him more during oral sex, you can do so by applying your
hands. Using your hands also open the chance of stimulating his testicles and
perineum while you keep giving him oral sexual stimulation on his "ice-cream
stick.".
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Blowing cold and hot
Oral sex can be fun if you can savor it up by playing with temperature and
excitements. You take a sip of warm water, You then gargle it and swallow.
Next, you take his penis into your mouth for twenty seconds then put an
ice-cube in your mouth before taking in his male organ. You continue the
blowjob. The variations in cold and hot will feel perfect for him. The warmth of your mouth combined with the
occasional flashes of chilliness will have him on his feet.
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Do not ignore other areas
The
scrotum and testicles are extremely sensitive areas that can drive him wild
when you lick on his testicles and gently pull his scrotum down.
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Bringing him to climax
You
should never be compelled to let him ejaculate in your mouth. It is your choice
and is defined by your level of comfort about it. He should not think any less
of you about your preference. You can resume the hand stroking through his
orgasm.
