Being Dominant In Bed As A Man

Regardless of what any social justice warrior may tell you – men and women are distinctive creatures that have their own tastes and preferences. This is not to say that there isn’t any overlap, but the fact of the matter is that, on average, both many and women are unique in their own ways as representatives of the two genders. Well, you might ask how does this relate to your sexual relationship? It relates in a big way.

As a man, in most cases, you will have to learn to lead. If there is one thing that attracts women it’s if the man is a leader. And this can easily translate in the bed. You need to do away with any notions that you may have about treating the woman as a princess during this time. Of course, there is a subset of women that may like this – but the vast majority of women want to feel masculine, dominant energy when they are in bed with a man. It will be a bad sexual experience for her.

So, the first rule of thumb is to never be hesitant as to what to do next while in bed. The worst thing that you could do while you’re having sex is to ask questions. Granted, this wouldn’t surprise us if it’s something that you think you should do. The fact of the matter is that many men are actively demasculinized by their upbringing and the society that forces them to treat women as beings on a pedestal.

There is nothing wrong with that, but again, it may cause problems in the bed. Long story short – don’t ask the girl what she wants to do when you’re in bed. You can have a constructive discussion afterwards or before – but not during it. If you implement your logical, thinking mind in the equation of having sex then you may very well have shot yourself in the knee. It will ruin the entire atmosphere of the moment.

If you want her to do something – don’t ask her to do it. Tell her to do it. You’d be surprised to learn just how responsive women get to an unwavering command given by a man while the two of you are having sex. It’s in the nature of most women to respond to male dominance in a favorable way. This won’t make her dislike you – in fact, it will make her even more attracted to you and the act will increase the heat of the moment.

Feel free to maneuver her in space (make sure, of course, that you don’t overdo this and hurt the girl.) Most girls like getting their hair pulled by a man while having sex. Some of them may enjoy being slapped in the butt. The most important thing to do is to let yourself go and feel the moment. You will see that you know exactly what to do while you’re at it. Just don’t overthink it – this is a mistake. Feel it learn more along the way and it will improve your sexual life and sexual technique. 

6 Erogenous Spots And Love Making Tips To Satisfy Her Sexually!

Women LOVE SEX! That is, women love sex if her partner knows how to massage her sexual pleasure spots using the right love making tips and with the right timing. There's lots to learn and a lifetime to do it. It's a fun way to experiment together. Try these basic techniques at her 6 erogenous spots and she'll love you!

Some may argue that there are more or less female erogenous spots than these. They may point out that women's erogenous spots include their neck, back, back of knees, arms, and so on. They may also say that a woman's brain is not an erogenous zones. My purpose here is to focus on six known spots that CAUSE ORGASMS in women.

1st Spot. Her brain.

Have you ever heard of the phrase, "you get to her body by getting to her head first?" Or, "the brain is the largest sex organ in the body?" You should first try to get your lady relaxed, feeling loved, and ready to go, before you try anything. A resistant woman means no fun and no orgasms!

Communication is a good ice-breaker. Talk in terms of what she likes. Then direct that conversation to some of the naughtiest things she's ever done. Or talk about fantasies she'd like to try. If you get her fully involved, and in the here and now, she can have an intense orgasm without touch. Her brain can cause her to rub herself!

2nd Spot. Her mouth.

If a woman can have a no-touch orgasm, as defined above, then she can surely have one by deep and hot kissing. You'll have to probably insert some naughty talk and tell her what you'd love to do to her, in detail, between kisses. Once she has a mouth orgasm she'll want them again and again. Making out is very special to women.

3rd Spot. Her breasts.

Once you get her heated above as outlined above you can head to her breasts. It's much better if she's heated up enough to guide your hand or mouth to her lovely breasts. Then start slowly, and tease around the nipple. Once you get it in your mouth make sure that you kiss, lick, gently bite, and suck it. Then apply more and more pressure until you are "milking" her breasts in and out with your mouth. It should take about 5-10 minutes.

4th Spot. Her clitoris.

Never head directly to her clitoris before you kiss her, give her some naughty talk, and play with her breasts. The only time I'd recommend that first contact with the clit is if it's part of a sex game and you just agree that you will lick her clit with your first contact.

Start off slowly and tease her with your finger or tongue at the very tip. Use a light and intermittent contact and make her tilt her pelvis for your touch. Less is more at this tender spot.

5th Spot. Her g-spot.

Use a firm one or two-finger touch on her g spot. With your palm up, use a "come here" motion that is firm and regular. It should take only a few minutes to give her this orgasm if you've properly prepared her with the above steps.

6th Spot. Her deep vaginal spot.

This deep vaginal or epicenter spot is located about 8 inches inside her vagina on the top. You can reach it with your long penis, deep vibrations, or even your hot explosion of semen. It shouldn't take more than about 30 strokes if you have the right spot and have prepared her as explained above.

You can use combinations of the above spots and really drive her nuts. Employ some sex games and some spicy ideas and you will have a very turned on woman! This is truly how to give a woman an orgasm!

Sex Games For Your Bedroom

When it comes to spicing things up in the bedroom, nothing beats the timeless magic of role playing. This enables people in a relationship to do things that they will not normally do. Behind the guise of another person, their inhibitions are completely stripped off; thus, leaving them to do exactly what they want to. There are other things that couples may do to spice up their sex life. Through different games and activities, routine intercourse could completely be avoided. However, most couples think that these games would only waste their time.

The following sex game ideas will surely change the way that you feel about sex games. Try them out for yourself and find out how they can add magic to your sex life.

Tasty Treats

Use food to satisfy your sexual hunger. Different types of food are usually available in your refrigerator. Be creative. Think of simple ways to use them in heightening your partner's sexual pleasure. Place dabs of whipped cream on strategic places on your partner's body. Take your time in licking every single drop of it off. The texture and the temperature of the whipped cream, along with the sensation of your lips and your tongue will drive your partner mad with pleasure. Go one step wilder and tie your partner's hands to the posts of the bed before you lick the whipped cream off. His lack of control over the situation will arouse him more than ever.

Be a Teenager Again

Remember how you couldn't get enough of each other when your relationship was just starting. Try to go back to that magical time by going on an all out make-out session. Kiss for the longest possible time. Try caressing different parts of your partner's body while kissing.

Wish List

Both of you should make a list of different sexual things that you want your partner to do to you. Place them on little pieces of paper and fold them. Take turns in picking a piece from the pile and acting out what is written. This game gets more fun as the game progresses. The different sexual favors will arouse both you and your partner's drive. This also gives you the chance to find out which sexual activity your partner loves. Remember what he wrote down and try them out again the next time that you spend quality time in the bedroom.

Make a Bet

Bet about anything, even frivolous things; but instead of forking over money, the loser should remove a piece of clothing. Make on bet after another. Whoever is left with no clothes on loses (or wins) the game.

Guess What

Tie a blindfold around your partner's eyes and make him lie on the bed. Rub some lubricant on different part of your body (like your fingers or the tip of your nose) and rub them gently on your partner's skin. Touch different places to increase his confusion. Ask him to guess what body part you are using to touch him. Remove the blindfold only when he makes the right guess.