Many people are unaware of the fact that good sex without
penetration is possible. The culmination of a heterosexual intercourse that
leads to an orgasm is the penetration of the penis into the vagina. However,
sex of this kind can sometimes bring many dangers because the absence of
appropriate protection can result in various sexually transmitted diseases and
unwanted pregnancy too. All these risks can be avoided by practicing sex
without penetration, which is a very effective and pleasant alternative. This
type of sex is preferred especially in situations where one of the partners or
both of them want to protect their virginity or to live with sexual abstinence
and also when sex that includes penetration is impossible for one or few
reasons – certain damages to the sexual health of one of the partners, painful
penetration etc. There are few ways in which people can have sex without
penetration and what they all have in common is that they can be really
exciting.
A very common way of having sex without penetration, which
was practiced even among people living in ancient times, is by rubbing the
penis between the thighs of the partner. This is a really easy method and
anyone can perform it. You and your partner should first find a comfortable
position and your partner should simply squeeze her thighs together in a way
that will provide a pleasant feeling for your penis once you start to penetrate
between them. In addition, you can always use certain amount of lubricant on
your penis and the thighs in order to avoid the unpleasant feeling of rubbing
and pain. Sex of this kind can be pleasant for both partners because you can
stimulate the clitoris of your partner if you place the penis close to the
vaginal opening. It is highly recommended to use a condom especially if this
type of sex will be used only as foreplay.
Rubbing the penis between the partner’s breasts is another
foreplay technique and a type of sex without penetration that is very popular. In
many cases this technique ends in orgasm for at least one of the partners. The
most appropriate position for sex of this type is when the woman rests on her
back and the man sits down on her upper body so he could penetrate between her
breasts. Just like in the case of thighs technique you should use lubricant
which will allow comfortable rubbing and you can squeeze the breasts together
or ask your partner to do that. In order to provide mutual pleasure you can use
your fingers to stimulate the nipples on the breasts or the clitoris. Your
partner can stimulate your penis with her lips if she puts a pillow under her
head.
Sex
without penetration can be an interesting and good foreplay or enrichment of
the sexual relationship and it can easily replace sex with penetration if it is
needed. The examples we have mentioned in this article are not the only
examples of sex without penetration so feel free to use your imagination and
explore your abilities.