How To Give The Best Blow Job

If you've never given a man oral sex or if you just don't think you are very good at it, there is hope for you. You don't have to feel lost about this subject. No matter your experience level, you can give a man an extensive blow job, and you can make that happen tonight.

To give your man intensified oral sex, you need to get yourself acquainted with some fellatio tips for amateurs. By learning these few tips, you will be provided with the right amount of confidence to make you feel better and to make you feel a bit more at ease. Before you grasp it, you will be rendering an oral like a pro.

To give a man a good blow job, here are the fellatio tips for beginners that you must know:

First of all, giving a man a great blow job is all in your confidence. Men just love a confident woman who acts like she knows exactly what she is doing in the bedroom. Even if you don't know what you are doing, act as if you do, it will trick him into believing your every move. With the right measure of confidence, you can turn him on and make him very hard before you even touch him. Then, as your mouth finally touches him down there, sparks will fly and whatever you do next will feel incredible.

For beginners, it is best to use a hand during oral sex. This is because although your mouth feels incredible on him, it just doesn't cut it. If you expect to make him climax from oral, you need to give him a bit more, and this is where your hand comes into play. With your mouth on the tip of his penis, you can stimulate him by licking, sucking, kissing and caressing and these are all very gentle touches. You can contrast this by adding in your hand on the shaft, and now you can rub, stroke and beat him hard, and he will love it. Men love to be toyed with and to be touched hard, so give him what he wants.

Another fellatio tip for beginners to eventually give him oral like a pro is to never forget about the testicles. His testicles need to be touched and stimulated to help him climax. Although it is not necessary, by giving him more sexual stimulation, you help to give him intense orgasm in a much stronger and more powerful way. This is a tip that women often forget and that beginners never even think about. Show him that you do know how to satisfy him orally and make sure you give him it all.

After using these beginner tips, you will be well on your way to giving your man the greatest sexual pleasure of his life and to eventually begin to give him a blow job like a real pro.

Four Amazing Standing Sex Positions

Ever felt bored and tired of the normal sex routine which involves missionary, doggy and woman on top? Want to try something new and emotionally fulfilling? Then you should think more of getting on your feet rather than feeling cozy in bed.

Having sex while standing is one of the best positions that will have you and your partner emotionally engrossed and satisfies with each other after the act. It brings out the Bonny and Clyde nature in the both of you when you try out the weird standing positions. These sex positions are not what you try out with anybody; it has to be someone you connect with on a deeper level, or probably a hooker who knows her job. We prefer you try it out with the former.

Disco position

This position involves standing face to face with your partner at a very close range. You come a bit closer and bend your knees slightly between her legs. Your girl should part her legs at shoulders weight and also bend her knees too. Hold each other at the thighs while you penetrate slowly till you are fully inside of her. Ensure you are inside before making movements and subsequent strokes. You can grip her waist for support and deeper penetration,

Wall position

There should be a support structure to successfully carry out this sex position. Stand with your back against the wall with both legs slightly placed forward while your girl places her legs in between one of your leg backing you and with her rear end shooting out. You will need to grip her hips for control while she holds your thighs. You can deeply penetrate her with this position and also get to play with her breasts or stimulate the clitoris.

Candle position

This is a simple position where you stand still close to a wall for support, or in any open space. Your partner stands in front of you backing you and standing on her toes to get to the level of your penis. While penetrating, you can place both hands on her breast to make her wetter for you and she can put her right hand on the back of your head while she rests her head on the other side of your shoulders to allow your caress her neck with your soft kisses.

Bicycle position

This position is more comfortable for the woman as she drops on all fours- her hands and legs on the floor like an elevated doggie. She should stand on her toes so that her buttock is pushed up closer to your drooping penis. Her legs which should be slightly apart go in between your widely parted legs. You should grip her waist so you can gently pull her up to meet your deep thrusts.

The great thing about standing while having sex is that you are not restricted to the bedroom. You can have it at any corner of the house which includes the kitchen, sunroom, balcony, bathroom, laundry room etc. you can also take it outside to elevators, pools, public restrooms etc. Here are some amazing standing sex positions you and your partner can try out for utmost sexual pleasure.

Five Wrong Reasons To Have Sex

Sex is meant to be a thing of consent and there shouldn’t be a wrong reason to engage in it. but this is not the case sometimes some people have sex other than the reason to feel happy and sexual satisfaction with their partners which is totally wrong. Let’s identify some wrong reasons people have sex:

I felt like I owed the person

Have you ever felt like this before? Probably the person might have helped you with the year’s rent, paid off your college debt, bought you that exotic house, or probably have taken you out to the loveliest dinner outing and you felt the best way to show appreciation is to give them intense orgasm. That’s a wrong reason to have sex. There are other ways to show appreciation, and most times a big smile, hug and thank you will be enough. Sex is meant for those who really want it as much as the other party does.

I wanted to have something to tell my friends

Call it peer pressure, but this pressure does not only involve teenagers. Some adults still feel that way especially if they are celibate or they’ve not gotten good loving in a long time. That stare they get from their friends when they hear sex has not been on the priority list for a long time might make them jump into bed with any stranger that is willing to do so. And the aftermath psychological effect could be depression and low self-esteem. Protect yourself and avoid getting into such situation.

I was under the influence of drugs

This is a terrible reason to have sex. When you are under the influence, it could make it all dangerous because you probably wouldn’t know who you are having sex with or if you are having safe sex and this could lead to sexually transmitted infections and sexually transmitted diseases. Taking drugs is bad and could put your life at risk; having unsafe sex is bad for sexual health.

I was coerced into it

This could be a scenario where you make the biggest mistake of your life to crash with a friend or colleague purely because you wanted to hang out with them; but then, hanging out turns to a long session of a plea for sex. You try and resist for a few hours, but when you realize you are not going to get a good night sleep, you give in for the sake of peace. Or, you just got into that new relationship, and it is not up to a week before the new guy or girl in your life starts pestering you for sex and you give in because you do not want to lose the relationship. Walking away would have been the best option in both scenarios. People should not coerce you into doing what you don’t want.

I was physically forced into it

This is in all shades of rape! If you’ve ever had such encounter, ensure that you report to the appropriate authorities. You should not feel ashamed to do so. To avoid getting yourself in this situation, be very observant of your environment, try not to get too close or comfortable to someone you have no feelings for. And, always have your pepper spray in your purse.